segregation, a new look-

People would say that Sunday was the most segregated day of the week, as each members of ethnic groups go to the church services that serves their ethnic preference.  But the more I think about it, racial/ethnic segregation w/in the Christian community is only the part of big picture.  We also have to take into account the generational segregation.  And I fear that w/ so much emphasis on specialized youth ministry, there is a danger of separating our youth from the older generation.  Not only that, since the ministry itself is geared towards meeting ‘specific needs’ of the youth, our children would be less prone to join in w/ the adult congregation where they would have to adjust themselves to meet the needs of older generations.  I truly believe that the most effective youth ministers are the parents w/ heart for their children.  As good as they are, youth ministers still must be a supplementary influence to the parents.

One of the things I appreciate about our church is this break down of ethnic/generational boundaries.  We have people from China, Japan, Jamaica, France, India, as well as Anglos coming together in same room and worshipping and fellowshipping together.  In terms of generational scope, we have anywhere from singles, young couples all the way up to those who are in retirement age.  And our church children’s ministry is run by our mothers.  What has truly been encouraging experience was to see our children take part in our gatherings like Christmas parties, Sunday worship.  What’s really awesome is the way in which these kids feel right at home, just hanging out and carrying on a meaningful conversations w/ their parents and friends of their parents w/out any sense of awkwardness – a true Christian fellowship, that transcends ethnic and generational gaps!